feat(#50): make the four 0-100 stats consequential

- Add a hard military conquest gate (canConquer, CONQUEST_MILITARY_MARGIN=15)
  enforced in applyTurnResult: a contested invasion is repelled when the
  attacker's military is more than 15 below the defender's; re-claims of
  unowned regions are never gated. Emits a new 'repelled' event.
- Document the soft levers in the system prompt: stability<30 + gathering
  marker -> non-military takeover; economy growth/decay drives other stats.
- Emit bounded frontierMilitary (per-neighbour balance) and takeoverRisks
  hints in the user payload (only when present).
- repelled outcome color (#9f1239); full unit test coverage; stub untouched.
- Bump to v0.30.0.

Fixes #50

src/lib/colors.ts

@@ -26,6 +26,9 @@ export const OUTCOME_COLORS: Record<EventOutcome, string> = {
   failure: '#ef4444',
   partial: '#f59e0b',
   neutral: '#94a3b8',
+  // (v0.30, #50) engine-emitted "invasion repelled" — a muted, darker red so it
+  // reads as a defensive failure distinct from a bright outright `failure`.
+  repelled: '#9f1239',
 };
 
 /**