feat(#50): make the four 0-100 stats consequential

- Add a hard military conquest gate (canConquer, CONQUEST_MILITARY_MARGIN=15)
  enforced in applyTurnResult: a contested invasion is repelled when the
  attacker's military is more than 15 below the defender's; re-claims of
  unowned regions are never gated. Emits a new 'repelled' event.
- Document the soft levers in the system prompt: stability<30 + gathering
  marker -> non-military takeover; economy growth/decay drives other stats.
- Emit bounded frontierMilitary (per-neighbour balance) and takeoverRisks
  hints in the user payload (only when present).
- repelled outcome color (#9f1239); full unit test coverage; stub untouched.
- Bump to v0.30.0.

Fixes #50

server/protocol.test.ts

@@ -1,5 +1,7 @@
 import { describe, expect, it } from 'vitest';
 import {
+  canConquer,
+  CONQUEST_MILITARY_MARGIN,
   deriveNationStats,
   migrateRegionStats,
   seedRegionStats,
@@ -218,3 +220,40 @@ describe('migrateRegionStats', () => {
     expect('uk' in (out.regionStats ?? {})).toBe(false);
   });
 });
+
+// --- canConquer (v0.30, #50: the military hard gate) -------------------------
+
+describe('canConquer', () => {
+  it('the default margin constant is 15', () => {
+    expect(CONQUEST_MILITARY_MARGIN).toBe(15);
+  });
+
+  it('an attacker within the margin of the defender proceeds (gap == margin)', () => {
+    // attacker 10, defender 25 → gap of 15 == margin → win (not more than 15 below)
+    expect(canConquer(10, 25)).toBe(true);
+  });
+
+  it('an attacker more than the margin below the defender is repelled (gap == margin+1)', () => {
+    // attacker 9, defender 25 → gap of 16 > margin → repel
+    expect(canConquer(9, 25)).toBe(false);
+  });
+
+  it('an equal attacker proceeds', () => {
+    expect(canConquer(50, 50)).toBe(true);
+  });
+
+  it('an attacker within the margin (gap < margin) proceeds', () => {
+    expect(canConquer(30, 40)).toBe(true); // gap 10
+    expect(canConquer(14, 25)).toBe(true); // gap 11
+  });
+
+  it('an attacker ahead of the defender always proceeds', () => {
+    expect(canConquer(90, 10)).toBe(true);
+  });
+
+  it('a margin of 0 means only an equal-or-ahead attacker proceeds', () => {
+    expect(canConquer(50, 50, 0)).toBe(true); // equal
+    expect(canConquer(51, 50, 0)).toBe(true); // ahead
+    expect(canConquer(49, 50, 0)).toBe(false); // one below → repel
+  });
+});